Mistake # 1 Talk at them, not to them
Mistake # 2 Only hear the bits that we want to hear
Mistake # 3 Put other needs before theirs or the relationships
Mistake # 4 Use them as a dumping ground for all our problems
Mistake # 5 Blame and ridicule our partner
Where is the secret you?
Where is the fun?
Love, do you bring it?
Getting your demands right
Love then or need them?
Do you want to break your cycle?
These mistakes can lead to such thoughts and proclamations as;
Why is she not bloody listening to me, she heard nothing that I just said, this stuff is really important to me, God…….
He is just my husband, we have been married for 15 years I don’t need to make an effort anymore, he should love me for who I am
My partner is there to take my bad moods, that’s part of the marriage, the good with the bad, so he should just deal with it
I would have been at the top of my game had we not moved here for her job, and now she wants to work part time, get real this was her choice so live with it
I am so sick of having the same conversation with my partner and nothing changes, she does exactly what she wants and doesn’t hear any of my concerns or needs
I just want to chill on the lounge, isn’t my right to just chill and not pay attention to him, I’m tired and I have worked hard all day, just blabbbbb away and I will nod.
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